Living with Duchenne
Alex’s Perspective
“Duchenne is part of my life - but it doesn’t define who I am.”
Who I Am
I’m Alex. I’m 19, and I live with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.
I was diagnosed just before my fourth birthday. I’ve grown up knowing life would be different, but I try not to overthink it – I just get on with things and make the most of what I can do.
Everyday Life
Living with Duchenne means daily medication and regular hospital appointments, including:
- Physio
- Neurology
- Heart checks
- MRIs
- Bone scans
- And (very) long journeys for clinical trials
It’s all part of my routine. It’s a lot sometimes, but it’s normal for me.
Clinical Trials
I’ve been part of clinical trials for most of my life.
They’re not always easy, but I know why they matter. If what I’m doing helps move treatments forward for others with Duchenne, then it feels worth it.
What Duchenne Changes
There are things I can’t do anymore.
I use my wheelchair full-time now, and things like walking on the beach, getting into the sea, or playing football just aren’t possible. Walking itself is a thing of the past.
Steroids have also affected my bones. I broke my hip when I was nine, and I broke my leg in a fall last year – stuff like that is a daily hazard and just happens more easily when you live with Duchenne.
Adapting
You learn to adapt.
My wheelchair doesn’t stop me from living my life – it just changes how I do things. Driving is a big one for me. Having that independence makes a massive difference.
Life Now
I’m studying Quantity Surveying at Nottingham Trent University and working full-time at the business my dad started.
I want to work, earn my own money, build a career, and feel like I’m contributing – just like anyone else my age.
Mental Health & Support
Living with Duchenne isn’t just physical – it messes with your head sometimes, too.
Some days you want to talk about it. Other days you don’t. Both are fine. Having support around you makes a huge difference, and I’ve been lucky to have that through Alex’s Wish and the Duchenne community.
My Outlook
I know Duchenne takes a lot away. I also know I’m one of the lucky ones – I walked until I was 18, which doesn’t happen for everyone.
I try to stay positive and not let Duchenne run my life. That’s where #BeMoreAlex came from.
“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade, or lemon meringue pie, or whatever else you want that day.”